This past weekend my mother celebrated another wonderful birthday. As I sat and thought about how blessed I am to have her, I began to think about all the things she’s taught me over the years. My mom showed me in word and actions what it meant to carry myself like a lady, to be a godly woman, wife and mother. She had a career, took care of home and served at our church for many years and she did it all with grace. She is a true Proverbs 31 woman and I am blessed to have her as my mommy and role model!
Now that I’m a mother and I can already see the influence that my husband and I have on our daughter Elyssa. She is a peaceful, joyful and talkative (baby talk of course) little lady at 5 1/2 months old. We make sure our home is peaceful and we’re always laughing together as a family and as a couple. Eddie and I love to talk and therefore Elyssa will often try to join our conversations with her own language. I see us in her and it’s so cool.
I believe that we as adults have a lot of characters like our parents and we know or don’t know different skills because of what our parents did or did not teach us. I work in the social work field and every day I see or hear of young people whose parents did not teach them the basics, the things that every child needs to know to be set up with success and it breaks my heart. A lot of family’s pass down the wrong things and don’t teach their children the right things.
This blog is a simple call to action for all the parents and future parents. Let’s love our children like we wanted to be loved as children. Let’s tell them how beautiful they are in the inside and out. Let’s remind them how much GOD loves them, which is why He died and rose from the dead for them. Let’s teach them God’s word and get them involved in a local church so they can have other positive children to spend time with and learn about Jesus. Let’s teach our children to love themselves and value their bodies enough not to allow others to misuse them. Let’s teach our children about sex and not leave them confused to learn from their friends or the TV. Let’s have open positive communication with our children and show them that we value their opinions. Let’s teach our boys and girls how to cook, clean, open a bank account and manage money. How will our children know anything else we teach them, unless we slow down our lives, cut off the TV, close the laptop, cancel some late night meetings and put down our smart phones and spend time with them. The world shows our children that they care by always being there to teach them negative things, the wrong things, so we as parents need to step up.
Proverbs 22:6 KJV
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old he will not depart from it.
A prayer for the parents
Lord God, I come before you now thanking you for blessing us to be able to be parents. Thank you Lord for giving us the grace needed to care for our children they way you’ve called us to. Give us energy Lord when we will feel tired. Give us wisdom and guide us through our journey of parenthood. Send appropriate and safe people our way to help us with our children. Speak to us Lord and show us who should not have access to our children. Thank you Lord for providing us with all that we need to care for our children. Thank you Lord for time apart from them at times so we can get a break. Thank you Lord for all these things in your name amen.
*Question: What is something your grateful your parent’s taught you? What is something you wish they taught you that they didn’t?*