National Love On Your Husband and Make Him Smile Day

Happy Friday Everyone!!

I want to make today National Love On Your Husband and Make Him Smile Day! All of our lives are so busy between taking care of our spouses, children, job duties, serving at our churches etc and sometimes it’s easy to forget to STOP and take time for the little things. Today I challenge us all to take a moment, slow down and love on our husbands. Ladies you know what your husband likes, you know what brings a smile to his face and makes him feel appreciated. I’ve learned that when I keep my husband happy he works even harder to make me happy and in turn we both continue working hard to meet each other’s needs. I must confess that today started off on the wrong foot. I was running late for work and being snappy. I calmed down, apologized and asked my husband if we can start over. I will work hard to make this day and everyday peaceful and enjoyable for us both. With God’s grace there’s nothing we can’t do ladies!!

Here are a few suggestions for ways you can love on your husband today:

*Call or text your husband and let him know that your thinking of him, hope he’s having a good day and can’t wait to see him later on.

*Give your husband a big kiss and hug before you leave the house or when you return. Look him straight in the face and tell him that you love, appreciate and need him. Make sure you say it like you mean it and show your desire for him in your eyes.

*If your husband likes cards, go purchase him a cute appreciation card with his favorite snack and let him know that you were thinking of him.

*Ask your husband if there is anything you can do for him today to help his day go smoother.

*Get a babysitter and surprise your husband with date night (this will only work if he enjoys going out and isn’t too tired) If he’s a home body, when the house is settled and the children are in bed, go freshen up, put on something sexy, walk into the bedroom and well you know what to do from there 🙂

*Maybe things have been so hectic that you and your husband haven’t sat down and just laughed and talked. Make it a point today to talk to your husband like you used to before bills, children and anything else that’s stressful. Look into his eyes, let him know your happy to be in the moment with him and just have a good time being there together.

The point of this post is to remind us to slow down and continue to make our marriages a priority. Marriage is a lot of work and in order to have a healthy, happy, holy and HOT marriage, we must continue to put in the time and effort. Wives lets continue to learn to communicate with our husbands with respect, understanding and compassion. When we find ourselves not being kind and patient lets be quick to apologize and get back in love with them. Let’s continue to make passionate love to them on a regular with excitement and a willing heart. Let’s continue to serve them however they need us to knowing that everything we do is to bring God glory.

Enjoy National Love On Your Husband Day and Make Him Smile Day! Feel free to post what you did or plan to do for your hubby today so other wives can be inspired! May God bless all of our marriages!!

How To Keep Your Hubby Happy, Satisfied And Eager To Get Home

Everyone knows that there are some women in the world who like to prey on married men. These women are on the search for someone else’s man, a challenge, a fling. I personally am not worried about any women trying to steal my husband because I don’t believe my husband can be stolen. Husbands and wives decide whether they are going to be faithful and committed to their marriages. As married people and even before we say I Do, we have to make up in our minds that marriage is FOR LIFE and we’ll do everything we can to stay faithful and happy.

Wives, we don’t want another woman to show our husbands more respect, affection or admiration than we do. I hate it when I see a wife tearing down her hubby because I know that if she keeps rejecting him, another woman would gladly pick him up.

Whether your marriage is good, bad or ugly right now, you have to decide to stick it out, pray, be patient, long-suffering and diligent. As wives, I feel it is vital for us to do all that we can to keep our homes peaceful, our husband’s happy, satisfied and eager to get home.

8 Tips to keep him happy, satisfied and eager to get home.

1. Watch your attitude. Some husbands don’t like to come home after work because they know their wives will start arguing and nagging them when they walk through the door. We as wives need to learn when and how to address our concerns without nagging or flying off the handle.

2. Keep your appearance up. If you did your hair, wore nice clothes and did other things to look good before marriage, you should try your best to keep that up after you say I Do! Men are visual and you want your hubby to know and believe that his wife is the finest woman around!

3. Keep a clean house. I know majority of wives work but there’s no reason for our homes to get trashed. Try to pick up during the week and exactly clean on the weekends when you have more time. You want your honey to feel comfortable in a clean home. Of course he should help you keep the home clean but that will probably take your guidance to help him 🙂

4. Find common interest so you can go out and have fun together. The couple that plays together stays together. Make time to get out and have fun, laugh, flirt, enjoy one another’s company. Married couples should spend more time together than apart.

5. Meet his sexual needs. Most men want sex a lot. Try your best to keep up with him and give him rain checks when you need time to rest. Try not to reject him with a negative attitude when your tired. He may feel that you don’t love or desire him. We don’t want them to make us feel that way when we ask for affection or communication. Married sex is awesome and if you need to, pray and ask the Holy Spirit to prepare your heart, mind and body and help you to enjoy it.

6. Be a safe and trusted person for him so that he can be vulnerable around you. Men don’t let their guard down easily. If you want him to open up, you must be patient, compassionate and trusting.

7. Be his ride or die chick. He needs to know that if he can’t count on anyone else (besides God) he can count of you. Through the good times in his career, health, finances and the bad. Love him, support him and pray for him always!

8. Be forgiving, don’t keep bringing up his past failures. When you get into intense fellowship with your hubby, don’t bring up old mistakes, failures or issues. It is not helpful and it will only make things worse. When we say we forgive people, we have to truly forgive and ask the Holy Spirit to help us forget. Even if the memory is refresh in your mind, if you keep bringing it up, the situation will never rest and the person will never get a chance to heal or redeem themselves.