How To Rock His World: Tips for Wives and Wives to Be

Here are 12 tips that I’ve learned during my 23 months of marriage. Married life is awesome and I want all couples to experience fulfilment in their marriages. With Christ at the center, you can never go wrong! Enjoy!

1) Love your husband in not only words but also in action. Find out what his love language is and love on him that way.

2) Make your husband your top priority. When he comes home from work, get off the phone, look cute, have dinner ready or prepared and listen to him if he wants to talk.

3) Be his BIGGEST cheerleader. Whatever he’s working on, praise him and let him know how proud of him you are. If it he isn’t doing well at the moment, let him know that you believe in him always and you appreciate him.

4) Be happy to be intimate with him and do it willingly often. Dont make your husband beg to make love to you. Sexual fulfillment is important in a marriage, it bonds MARRIED couples and keeps them close. Dont reject him and his need for sex. If you can’t perform at that moment, kindly give him an alternative time or plan (baby I wish I could but I’m so tired right now. I got you in the morning though, I promise.) If you say this, make sure you set your alarm to get up early, get freshened up and send him to work with a smile.

5) Dont talk bad about your husband to your family, friends, coworker etc. Dont let anyone else speak negatively of him either. You and he are one. If their talking about him, their talking about you.

6) Seek God for ways to love your husband better. Seek God for patience and longsuffering to help you handle the difficult times. Marriage is hard work, fun work, but work just the same. Thankfully, we don’t have to figure it all out ourselves, Holy Spirit is there to lead and guide you, all you have to do is seek Him.

7) Be sexy for your husband. Ask him what types of clothes, hair, makeup and shoes he would like to see you rock. He is the only person’s world that you want to rock. If no one else in the room thinks your sexy and irresistible, he should. He’s all that matters. You don’t have to dress in his favorite outfits everyday, but I LOVE to see my husbands face when I get dressed and he’s drooling over me.

8 Keep the house clean. Even if he doesn’t help you often, make sure the temple he comes home to is straightened up. If you see things getting cluttered, just start cleaning up. My husband isn’t particular about the house and when I clean it. We straighten the house daily and clean it thoroughly on Saturdays. He’s always appreciative of the fact that the house looks good and his clothes are washed.

9) Send your husband loving, thoughtful and sexy text messages, emails or instant messages throughout the day. When it pops in your head, send him something to say you love him, or your thinking of him or you cant wait to be with him later that night. Husbands like to know that they are being thought of.

10) Show him respect always. Find out what respect means to him and try your best to do it. Repent when you fall short and work hard to do better. A good husband who knows that his wife loves him, respects him and want to please him sexually, there’s nothing he wouldn’t try to do for her. He will willingly try to work hard to spend money on you, take you where you want to go and do what you want to do. Trust me.

11) Experiment sexually and don’t be afraid to enjoy it. God made the marriage bed and it is holy and good. By experiment I don’t mean bring anything (tools, porn, other people) I mean new positions, times of day, places to be intimate. If you two are getting bored, make sure you try to think of  HOLY things that you both are comfortable with trying.

12) Recreational companionship. Do things together. Have fun, be partners/play mates. Be each other’s best friend. Laugh together, do indoor and outdoor activities together. Take turns doing things he wants to do and things you want to do. The couple that plays together stays together.


11 Responses to “How To Rock His World: Tips for Wives and Wives to Be”

  1. Charlotte Says:

    This is wonderful. I am not married now, but this gives me a good guideline to take to God in prayer when I ask Him to prepare me to be a wife. My first marriage ended after 11 years, the keys you gave are wonderful, this one I will print to review often.

  2. Mr. Eddie Willis III Says:

    Amen Sista Willis. God Bless you. 🙂

  3. Bucarrui Akles Says:

    I love it. It’s so helpful to be reminded sometimes even for those married for 6 years. We still act like newlyweds but sometimes since the baby has been here you get tunnel vision. Thanks cousin.

  4. Connie Worley Says:

    Joanna, I loved it as well as”A Good Man Ain’t Hard to Find I and II! I am printing them out to go into my hope chest. I am so proud of you and Eddie. When I served in the tv ministry, I was always upstairs in the control room but I could view the service through the television monitors. You and Eddie are one of a few couples that have truly blessed me. … See MoreThere were days that Eddie appeared to be about ready to jump off the stage because he was so on fire for the Lord when the choir would be singing. Then next we we would get a shot that included you and others and you were on fire on too. That’s just awesome to see a couple loving the Lord and doing things his way. I just moved back to Charlotte, NC a couple of weeks ago but I am so grateful to God for showing me perfect examples of how dating and marriage should be conducted. May God continue to Richly Bless You Both!

  5. Delonna Says:

    Thanks for the tips! I know so many couples that will benefit from this information. Marraige is what YOU make it. This info is a blessing. Thank you.

  6. Toi Johnson Says:

    Great word! Thanks for sharing. We must remember to have fun and appreciate what we have been blessed with. Marriage is a blessing from God!

    • joannawillis Says:

      Thank you all for the comments and encouraging words! God is good! He created marriage and sex and therefore they are both good in His sight!! I plan to enjoy them both very much for many many many many years!! LOL Glory!

  7. Lamar Akles Says:

    Girl you better say it!!! This is some great stuff. Men for the most part are wired a certain way and you just hit the nail on the head. Men want to give their wives the world any way and following your advice just makes us want to rob banks!!!!!! lol
    Marriage is a MINISTRY! Ministry means work but it doesn’t have to be hard work. If we would (husbands and wives) be selfless instead of selfish our marriages would not end up in divorce. God created us to serve!!!! We can’t serve effectively if we are selfish.

  8. Maxine Herron Says:

    Thanks for sharing the tips. Great words of wisdom. I am single now,but believing God for my mate. This is a very good guideline to take to God in prayer when I ask him to prepare me to be a wife.

    • joannawillis Says:

      Your very welcome Maxine! Thanks for reading and for the encouraging comments. God is preparing you for your mate and your mate for you. Keep walking in faith, patience and obedience.

  9. joannawillis Says:

    Amen Lamar!! Marriage is ministry!! Thanks for reading and adding those important key points!! I don’t get hear from the men often so I appreciate you cousin!!

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